Adam and Eve are to blame for all this turmoil. No, not really but who knew relationships would be so hard. Bliss is such a wonderful feeling. on the other hand heart ache is down right disgusting.
And I am sure it’s a very trying and difficult time your enduring right now. I can’t remember the movie, but the main character has his relationships end. The co-star says something like, it’s better to lost and loved then to ever be loved. And the star retorts, oh ya try it. Well you can win him back and I want to tell you how.
Only this is not Hollywood, it’s real life and you have lost a close knit relationship. Having a relationship end unexpectedly hurts. It tests our resolve and our confidence. Let me clue you in on three tips so you can discover the best ways get your man back.
Stay Rational - I know when someone I loved dearly broke up with me I went a little crazy. Don’t make the mistake of calling him at all hours or text messaging him non stop. This makes you look a needy and no one wants some one with low self esteem. You can also forget about calling his friends or family, it won’t work. Be smart and play it cool. And one more thing, don’t try and spend you’re time trying to decode his voice mail password.
Break off all contact with him and let him go for a bit. The emotions you are going thru are very difficult and I know you want to resolve this as fast as possible. These things take time so relax. Don’t contact him or see him, you must put some distance between the both of you.
Write him a letter in a two weeks. This letter will be a devious ploy to see him again without any type of relationship thoughts. It’s devious because the plan get your ex boy back is a little bit sly. Hey, all is fair in love and war. In the letter tell him you hope to remain good friends and you are totally cool with the break up and he was probably right and you have some news you want to talk to him about. Just make plans to arrange a dinner meeting with him. At this dinner your goal is spring on him the news you might of found someone else and you hope he will approve of him someday.
You’re probably wondering right now if this will really work. Let me ask you something… Do you think he still has feelings for you. If he does, this is a great course of action. People desire things they cannot have, from cars to relationships. Once he realizes you may be gone forever, he will want you back. And you have basically turned things around on him. Don’t expect it to happen right on the spot, it might take a few days or even a week. It a chance you have to take to be back in his arms someday and you will have won your ex back.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
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